“Suffering is a short pain and a long joy.” ~Henry Suso It’s hard not to wish your life away when you’re in the midst of suffering. Whether enduring cancer, loss of a loved one, or loss of a dream--suffering does not discriminate. And it may be the one thing that connects us all. I’m a “get through
The holidays are right around the corner, and I must admit I’ve already started picking up a few Christmas gifts for my daughter. But when it comes to me, please, don’t get me anything. Christmas has always been my favorite holiday. I love the festive elegance of my family’s Christmas Eve
It’s July and just like every July, I cannot believe it’s July already! I look forward to summer so much that I’m in shock when July rolls around! How can it be July already? Summer just started and it already feels like the end of summer is near. The fourth of July is a milestone that seems to make
We have all been taught “giving is better than receiving,” right? This adage is supposed to keep us from being self-centered and open our eyes and hearts to needs around us, essentially resulting in gratitude for what we do have – ultimately resulting in happier lives. I would say that’s a pretty
Just as November is the month of Thanksgiving, December is the month of giving or gifting. As I reflect on my journey since announcing my breast cancer diagnosis, I have been full of gratitude for many good things in my life including my friends. I am most fortunate to have some of the best friends
Let's face it – the holidays can be extremely stressful. For many of us, all of the expectations that come with the holidays can be too much to bear ( see Carrie Snyder’s blog this month!). When shopping for the women in your life or shopping for something for yourself, consider some self-care gifts
It’s fall in southern Delaware. The onslaught of tourists is a memory and the Eating Season has begun. Local restaurants have kicked off a mind-blogging array of off-season happy hour discounts, meal deals, and delicacy specials. Alcohol holds the top position of the ‘special-for-you’ heap. Happy
I have sat down to write this blog several times in the past few weeks only to abandon my efforts because I cannot stand how negative I was being! So here I am, on Christmas Eve morning, and it finally came to me! After walking my dog, I ran in to sit down and write it! I, like many of you, have
The holidays bring celebration, tradition, and joy, but also obligation and expectation. This season can be stressful under the best circumstances, but add a cancer diagnosis or treatment into the mix, and the weight can become unbearable. If you or someone you love is navigating the merriment of
You probably didn’t see it coming and had no way to prepare, but here you are – someone you love has received a diagnosis that rocks your world. Your role has shifted; life has changed. You are the caregiver, the one responsible for maintaining daily physical needs and navigating the heavy emotional